I ate a very interesting chocolate bar the other day. It was aptly named "Fireworks," by a brand named Chuao, as it has Pop Rocks mixed in. The small sparks had been going off steadily and I thought the show was over. Then one big pop exploded, louder and sharper than all the rest. It caught me off guard, and I couldn't help but laugh. It reminded me of a storm that seems to be fading off into the horizon, only for a sudden bolt of lightning to split the sky and crack through the silence.
The unpredictability is what makes both so exciting. You never know when the last pop or strike is really the last. You cannot plan it or time it, and even if you expect to be surprised, you very likely still will be. You can only wait, aware that the next one could arrive at any second. The tension is part of the fun, just like not knowing when the finale is when attending an actual fireworks show. If you mistake the second-to-last act for the finale, you could turn your back before the finale even actually begins.
We tend to crave order and control, but moments like this remind us of the importance of unpredictability. If everything were perfectly measured out, the joy would flatten into routine. Lightening and thunder in the sky would not be half as awe-inspiring if we knew exactly when each bolt was going to crack. Pop Rocks that popped like clockwork would similarly not be very much fun. The surprise is what makes us pay attention.
Some of the most vivid memories we carry often come from these unexpected sparks. A chance encounter with an old friend. An offhand comment from a friend that makes you see something in a new way. Even a small interruption to your routine can stick with you far longer than a carefully planned event. These moments stand out precisely because they were not scripted, reminding us that life is most memorable when it does not go according to plan.
The lesson is not to chase chaos everywhere, but to recognize that certain parts of life are better when we allow them to be unpredictable. Small surprises make us feel alive, and we can choose to make room for them. Take a different route on your evening walk, stop by a new coffee shop instead of the usual one, or say yes to a conversation you might normally avoid. These deliberate detours open space for life to surprise us, and it is often those surprises that keep our days from blurring into routine. Like Pop Rocks and lightning, they are little jolts that keep us awake to the wonder of it all.