I was asleep on the pull-out couch at my cousin and her husband’s house when, at about 6:45am, I’m jolted awake by their six-year-old son enthusiastically asking to show me his favorite Pokémon cards. While I do very much love Pokémon, I found myself fascinated by his ability to fully switch on to peak operating power immediately upon waking up. It was like watching a light switch flip—from deep sleep to full throttle, eyes wide and feet bouncing with energy. This is how kids wake up. For most adults, however, waking up often resembles the slow rise of a dimmer switch, with each step out of bed and cup of coffee gradually making the light brighter.
I’ve often wondered at what point in life the method of waking up shifts from an On/Off switch to a dimmer. Is it during the turbulence of adolescence, the uncertainty of our early twenties, or the soul-searching of our first career milestones that transforms the light switch into a dimmer? Does this transformation happen overnight, or does the dimmer gradually lose its strength as we age? If reaching peak operating power calls for five strong cups of coffee, it may be worth considering what changes or habits could brighten your mornings and recapture some of that natural energy.
I find it fascinating how age transforms the waking process. A 7-year-old springs from bed like they’ve been waiting for an imaginary starting gun, ready to leap into action. As the years go by, our mornings seem to require negotiation—between the temptation to snooze and the demands of the day ahead. What changes? Is it simply our bodies, or does it have more to do with the weight of responsibility that gradually settles on our shoulders? Kids, blessed with abundant energy and minimal responsibilities, don’t just wake up—they burst awake. It’s as if their internal light switch is permanently in the “on” position. Their minds are clear, free from the baggage of unfinished tasks and existential dread.
The light-switch awakening may also be a reflection of how children perceive time. For them, each day is a fresh start, unconnected to the worries or regrets of the previous one. Instead, they’re thinking, “What’s for breakfast?” or “Can I go play outside now?” It’s a level of mental clarity most adults can only envy. Contrast this with adults, whose mornings can often feel like a slow walk uphill. When your alarm goes off, the dimmer switch enters the position where the light is flickering and barely on as you decide whether you are going to hit the snooze button or get out of bed.
Part of this phenomenon is undoubtedly biological. As we age, our sleep cycles change, and we’re less likely to achieve the deep, restorative sleep that kids so easily enjoy. There is a psychological element too. Adults wake up carrying the weight of yesterday and the expectations of tomorrow. Before your feet even hit the ground, your mind is already juggling meetings, deadlines, errands, and worries.
Is there a way for adults to recapture the light-switch magic of childhood mornings? Maybe not entirely, but there are steps you can take to make your mornings less more energized. Establishing a ritual—like journaling or savoring a quiet cup of coffee—can set a positive tone. Limiting noise and distractions can lead to noticeable improvements, including refraining from scrolling through emails or notifications right away. Lastly, thinking of one or two aspects of your day ahead that you are looking forward to early on, like a big project or an important meeting, can make your mornings feel more purposeful and energizing.
Reflecting on the differences in how kids and adults wake up, I can’t help but see the stark juxtaposition as a metaphor for life itself. Kids greet each day with unrelenting enthusiasm, while adults often ease their way into mornings, burdened by the complexity of living. I have learned that we can choose to bring a bit of the "light-switch" energy into our "dimmer-switch" mornings. Perhaps not every morning will feel like a fresh start, but with some effort, we can rekindle some of that light-switch energy and greet the day with purpose and enthusiasm.